Saturday, January 16, 2010

How a Lady Should Dress for the First Date


You need to know where are you going to: will you walk in the park, beach and go swimming, horse riding or climbing mountains? Neutral colors, classic styles and great accessories are always comfortable if you don't know your destination.


Decide what makes you feel pretty, sexy, confident or comfortable and make the most of it. Do you ant to be seductive or look posh or intelligent? All in one?


Choose your colors. A black dress with silver jewelry could be stylish along with leather black shoes. If you decide that’s it, be careful with the heels. Think about comfort. Stiletto heels or a very short skirt may make you uncomfortable and distract you from your date.


Don’t put too much make up on your face, you don’t want to hide behind a mask and you should be a perfect dating single Decide if you want to put more or lips or eyes, don’t make it all shiny around. If you’re planning to eat, better go for the eyes as these will last longer. If you’re unsure use some help from near make-up artist. You need to look gorgeous for that day. Remember to impress him on every date, not only for the first time. Everytime you can look different but still he’ll be interested in you. He’s yours!.


They change subject every time you ask about their personal life, marital status and opinion on online dating or if they have committed any crime. It’s not easy to avoid liars or turn one into positive-minded and honest. If you suspect him of telling a lie, ask him what are the things he likes in people. Then you tell about your own. Let him know that the most important thing is honesty. When he is evading your question, don’t let him change the subject too easily. Say that this must be very interesting and you would really like to know the story. You can comfort him with telling ‘you can tell me anything’.


If you’re sure that he is lying or is much stressed of your insisting leave it. You already know there’s something wrong and you don’t want to hear ‘I have murdered someone yesterday’ to become another witness. Watch his behavior. If he is nervous, looking elsewhere, rapidly drinking or grabbing food probably he still want to change the topic because his glass is empty or need to walk to the toilet.


Don’t get mad about little lies, if he was late and seems to be very sorry don’t punish him and completely enjoy in dating You know it’s easy to get late and sometimes we lie that we waiting so long for a bus when in fact we had to finish that make-up. If you have found out he is a liar when you meet his brother on the street or his friends who say totally different story it might be not worth it. If you don’t want to be with a liar just find another guy. Remember, you can never change a liar. You can find a way to know the truth but that will never be revealed by your man directly.

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