Sunday, March 18, 2012

A Girl in City: Nature’s love

A Girl in City: Nature’s love: Nature's Love  Today’s evening was very different from other usual evenings, I was coming from my office and I am sure you will think...

Wednesday, January 27, 2010

Dating Tips For Men - Tips to Grasp When Using Online Dating Websites

The large problem when you e-mail a woman you have to show yourself as a psychologist. How are you expected to do this? Quite Simple. You have to make a little prediction that comes out to be true. Firstly you have to read the woman's advertisement and collect all the important information you have.
Try to realize what is the real motivation for her to post an advertisement. It may be declared directly - than it is useless for you to mention it. If she doesn't say it clear, then go for it - she will be pleased to hear that someone understands her.

You can guess that the woman is likely already bored of ads, revealing about heights, weight and eye colour. Say that you will not bother her with trivial facts. Promise to send her a photo instead in some of your following correspondence.

Of course - do it if she replies. If you manage to make such a working prediction, this will assure the lady that the gap between your ears is not filled with air. You know, even if you are not quite right, she might reply to tell where you are wrong. This is also a topic for conversation. Use it. Be humorous!

Showing some sense of humour - well, something that is tricky to accomplish sometimes. What I can say is JOKE WITH YOURSELF, NOT WITH HER! REMEMBER THAT! Do not use any of the info that she gives as a substance for jokes!

It may work, but it is more likely that you frighten the lady off. Try to get her point of view - she will say "Who the hell is he to speak like that?!" At the same time, you can always laugh from the way you look. Use phrases like "It could be much worse" or "I do not cover the mirrors with Sheets at my place" when chatting about your look.

It is a basic thing to prove that you like yourself. If you don't, well... this is a little bit far from the theme of this article, but do an effort not to show it (and continually work to amend this). It is a basic statement that you have first to respect and adore the person that you see in the mirror in order the others to respect and adore you. Back to humour -keep the lines that are supposed to make her laugh unexpected and brief.

Telling lengthy stories with a funny end is not a really good idea - the end might not be that amusing and the whole impression might be in vain. Coming up with a humorous line at the moment of writing an e-mail is not always achievable. It is a clever idea always to keep your ears open for witty things, quotes, etc. Note them down the minute you hear them, or when they come to your mind.

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Adult Dating Sites for High Profile Members to Meet


People today have a wide resource of meeting new people online because of the abundance of great adult dating sites. There is also a wide range of features in these free adult dating sites. As for the online members, meeting you normal online member can be a bore. But what most may not know is these totally free personals is the high members who use the cams.com.

One great feature of these new high profile dating sites is the different members meeting each other. One free adult free dating site test showed, a successful young women meeting a well off executive may never happened if not for cams.com.

From researching many free adult dating sites in order to meet high profile paid subscribers. The best advice is do testing of dating sites and do not lie to members. Find out what makes these high profile members happy and listen to them. But do not do all the chatting. It is safe to say that most successful people are always working and listen very well, so allow them to talk to you, this will make them happy. A safe tip would be to create a great relationship is be a person that someone can tell their problem and successes to. Do not try to solve their problems and be attentive by asking questions is a great strategy. Do not push your great qualities about yourself in the beginning.

Of course always answers questions honestly and be yourself and not sell yourself. Most people do not know this, but when you listen to someone. You are showing support and that goes very far in online dating and relationships. Just being a good listen makes you a supportive person and most successful relationships is about support.

Dating Tips For Men - 4 Things to Avoid Around Women



There's nothing like being able to walk up to a woman that you and many other men find quite appealing, and knowing that you can do whatever it takes to make her feel attracted to YOU. While not every man has this experience, any man can learn how to become more attractive and appealing to women. Now, I'm not going to hit you with one of those bogus lines about how you can make every woman that you want fall for you. Just pick your favorite celebrity or model and you will see that there are limitations.

One of the most important things that you can focus on is what to avoid when you are around a woman that you want. This way, you don't run the risk of doing things to get rejected and you can figure out more easily what you should do.

Here are 4 things that you should avoid:

1. Chatterbox syndrome. When some guys feel nervous or like they have to impress a woman, they sometimes have the tendency to become a bit too chatty. This is easily seen right away by a woman for what it is (nerves), and also let's face facts, a chatterbox can be annoying to be around. The last thing that you want to do is to annoy a woman you find appealing.

2. Cockiness. Some men lack confidence and try to overdo it by acting cocky around a woman. Well, although there might be a select few out there that actually do find this an attractive trait, the truth is, cockiness can easily lead to you get shot down for coming across like a jerk.

3. No confidence. Just as bad as cockiness with a woman, is having no confidence at all. While you may not have a lot of success in the past with women, and maybe you don't feel that you are a "stud", you should still be able to display some confidence in yourself. After all, why would a woman fall for you if you lack the necessary esteem in yourself?

4. No game. Some men really just have no game at all with women. These are the kinds of men that either never try at all, or when they do, they try the worn out methods and approaches. Easily spotted, they try to use lines that didn't even work in junior high. Don't come across like this, unless you don't mind bruising your ego.

How to Keep Your Relationship Healthy





Men and women tend to function from two completely different directions when it comes to how they behave in a relationship. This behavior is most prominent in regard to how they communicate and their levels of understanding.

According to studies written by relationship counselors, communication is responsible for more than half of the failed relationships that have been observed and documented.

This is not news to anyone who has experienced a relationship that has lasted more than 30 days. What may be interesting is the variety of issues that cause relationships to fail.

I've been on both sides of a broken relationship over my years of living and working as a counselor. Once as a child of a functioning but broken home and once as the spouse who left the relationship.

What I learned from each perspective I have written into a battery of counseling tips and conversations that serve to support couples. The saying, "Knowledge is power," rings true when it comes to relationship rescue. If you have 5 minutes to spare to focus on your relationship skills, you can learn to make your relationship lighter. By lighter I mean, the heaviness that many relationships carry is based on baggage being carried by the partners. Most often the partners carry this baggage silently.

The primary issue that impacts the relationship is not the baggage or the presenting issues that cause or contribute to the failure of the relationship. What tends to feed the decline is the silent suffering combined with a subconscious belief that the other partner should be aware of this baggage, even though neither of them has given anything more than a hint of what is being carried.

Making your relationship lighter may be an alien term or merely a distracting thought with a funny name. Take 5 minutes to open your mind to some new possibilities that may be hidden in your relationship.

John Maxwell, author of "Relationships 101," says, "People don't care how much you know, until they know how much you care." When it comes to relationships, most often the male and the female partner fail to communicate this fundamental message.

Looking deeper into ways of strengthening your relationship beyond the physical level of living together, means each partner must be deeply committed to the other partner. This includes taking the risk of assuming the other partner is carrying baggage silently.

This is not a license to pry or aggressively intrude into the other partner's privacy, because privacy is always vital in a relationship. Communication is not expecting your partner to disclose every details of their day. Communication travels to emotional locations untouched by words alone.

What helps to understand the balance that is needed begins by looking into the mirror and searching for a way of getting a handle on one's own baggage. It often occurs in the partnering of individuals that while opposites attract, these opposites also share experiences.

It is documented that children who grown up in a home where a spouse has been abused will mostly find themselves in an abusive relationship as adults. Recognizing the reality of the presence of this baggage in one's self forms the basis of the subconscious desire for the other partner's understanding in the form of silent knowing.

Additionally, this type of baggage also provides a basis for deeper understanding of the partner's own behavior as well as any communicational barriers that have been observed to exist.

The healing and preventative process must begin with a message and an understanding that baggage, both known and unknown, exists in the relationship. Both partners must also recognize that communication is a major player in both the success of their relationship, while lack of communication can be the primary reason for any potential for the failure of the relationship.

"Relationships of trust depend on our willingness to look not only to our own interests, but also the interest of others."

Ms. Online Dating

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Saturday, January 16, 2010

How a Lady Should Dress for the First Date


You need to know where are you going to: will you walk in the park, beach and go swimming, horse riding or climbing mountains? Neutral colors, classic styles and great accessories are always comfortable if you don't know your destination.


Decide what makes you feel pretty, sexy, confident or comfortable and make the most of it. Do you ant to be seductive or look posh or intelligent? All in one?


Choose your colors. A black dress with silver jewelry could be stylish along with leather black shoes. If you decide that’s it, be careful with the heels. Think about comfort. Stiletto heels or a very short skirt may make you uncomfortable and distract you from your date.


Don’t put too much make up on your face, you don’t want to hide behind a mask and you should be a perfect dating single Decide if you want to put more or lips or eyes, don’t make it all shiny around. If you’re planning to eat, better go for the eyes as these will last longer. If you’re unsure use some help from near make-up artist. You need to look gorgeous for that day. Remember to impress him on every date, not only for the first time. Everytime you can look different but still he’ll be interested in you. He’s yours!.


They change subject every time you ask about their personal life, marital status and opinion on online dating or if they have committed any crime. It’s not easy to avoid liars or turn one into positive-minded and honest. If you suspect him of telling a lie, ask him what are the things he likes in people. Then you tell about your own. Let him know that the most important thing is honesty. When he is evading your question, don’t let him change the subject too easily. Say that this must be very interesting and you would really like to know the story. You can comfort him with telling ‘you can tell me anything’.


If you’re sure that he is lying or is much stressed of your insisting leave it. You already know there’s something wrong and you don’t want to hear ‘I have murdered someone yesterday’ to become another witness. Watch his behavior. If he is nervous, looking elsewhere, rapidly drinking or grabbing food probably he still want to change the topic because his glass is empty or need to walk to the toilet.


Don’t get mad about little lies, if he was late and seems to be very sorry don’t punish him and completely enjoy in dating You know it’s easy to get late and sometimes we lie that we waiting so long for a bus when in fact we had to finish that make-up. If you have found out he is a liar when you meet his brother on the street or his friends who say totally different story it might be not worth it. If you don’t want to be with a liar just find another guy. Remember, you can never change a liar. You can find a way to know the truth but that will never be revealed by your man directly.