Wednesday, January 27, 2010

Dating Tips For Men - 4 Things to Avoid Around Women



There's nothing like being able to walk up to a woman that you and many other men find quite appealing, and knowing that you can do whatever it takes to make her feel attracted to YOU. While not every man has this experience, any man can learn how to become more attractive and appealing to women. Now, I'm not going to hit you with one of those bogus lines about how you can make every woman that you want fall for you. Just pick your favorite celebrity or model and you will see that there are limitations.

One of the most important things that you can focus on is what to avoid when you are around a woman that you want. This way, you don't run the risk of doing things to get rejected and you can figure out more easily what you should do.

Here are 4 things that you should avoid:

1. Chatterbox syndrome. When some guys feel nervous or like they have to impress a woman, they sometimes have the tendency to become a bit too chatty. This is easily seen right away by a woman for what it is (nerves), and also let's face facts, a chatterbox can be annoying to be around. The last thing that you want to do is to annoy a woman you find appealing.

2. Cockiness. Some men lack confidence and try to overdo it by acting cocky around a woman. Well, although there might be a select few out there that actually do find this an attractive trait, the truth is, cockiness can easily lead to you get shot down for coming across like a jerk.

3. No confidence. Just as bad as cockiness with a woman, is having no confidence at all. While you may not have a lot of success in the past with women, and maybe you don't feel that you are a "stud", you should still be able to display some confidence in yourself. After all, why would a woman fall for you if you lack the necessary esteem in yourself?

4. No game. Some men really just have no game at all with women. These are the kinds of men that either never try at all, or when they do, they try the worn out methods and approaches. Easily spotted, they try to use lines that didn't even work in junior high. Don't come across like this, unless you don't mind bruising your ego.

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